Wednesday, April 20, 2011

49.

The problem with being asked to describe two hours with the greatest man in Pakistan is that it is a bit impossible to do justice to. I was initially excited about the prospect of writing about my interview with Abdul Sattar Edhi. During our session, I made mental notes of all his inspiring quotes and decided I would focus on those alone. About ten minutes in I realized that picking just a few inspiring things he said would be even more difficult than describing him. So here is my sloppy attempt to explain what happened today.

We just walked into the Edhi office in Mithadar. We had no precise address and no phone number we could reach easily, but this didn’t turn out to be a problem at all. Every single person we stopped in the congested streets knew where Edhi sahib’s office was and they were able to direct us so accurately we arrived twenty minutes early. Nobody asked us why we were early or how long we planned to stay. We were ushered into a room decorated with posters from campaigns for a drug free Pakistan, a tolerant Pakistan, a compassionate Pakistan. Several honorary degrees were displayed under the glass top of a table we sat on (a table we learned was “older than this country”). A large red sticker was on the door behind me. “LOVE HUMANITY,” it proclaimed in gaudy yellow lettering. I wondered at the man who had stuffed honorary PhDs under a glass top and chosen to frame and display a sticker like that. That’s all you can do with Edhi. Wonder.

I was nervous about meeting him. I’ve wanted to meet him since I was eight years old. I doubt there is a single man alive who commands as much respect, trust and gratitude as Abdul Sattar Edhi. Beggars, dacoits, philanthropists and society aunties alike feel safe depositing their zakat, their sadqas, their khairat, their earnings, their bread into his fund, knowing that it will reach whoever needs it most. Personally, I am not an especially spiritual person, but when I think of prayer I recall being nine years old and trying very hard to send blessings to the mysterious Edhi who seems to be keeping our country afloat singlehandedly. I don’t know what I expected of him today, but I did not expect him to walk into the room while we were all setting up our equipment and hearing him say “Assalam Alaikum” unassumingly, as if he wasn’t Edhi himself but simply a random person strolling into the room.

Once I had recovered from being tongue tied and begun the interview, I learned many things I didn’t know about Edhi, but many more I hadn’t realized about society. I learned that he describes himself as a Sheikh Chilli who never dreams small. I learned that he despises maulanas who choose Islamism over humanity, but equally disparages those who despise criminals without understanding their motives. I learned that his inspiration for placing a cradle outside every welfare center was his experience of picking maggot-ridden babies out of the trash and seeing an illegitimate infant stoned outside a mosque. I learned that he deeply loves his wife, doesn’t understand why people don’t choose to adopt daughters and employs mostly women because he believes they do God’s work better than men. I learned that he has met Gandhi and befriended Bacha Khan in his youth. More than anything, I learned that nothing disgusts him more than people who see humans as anything but humans. “Insaniyat” is the only religion, he told us. I asked him what inspired him to start working for all of us the way he does. “I am a Muslim and I do what God has asked me to do. The only message of religion is that humanity is one. Nowadays, the world has become so big that we find ways to divide it up, but that’s what destroys us-divisions, divisions, divisions.”

I don’t think any of us knew that Edhi has worked for humane causes in no less than 73 countries. I don’t think any of us expected him to well up with sadness when he told us that India, the country of his birth, is one of the only two countries in the world that has denied him a visa for his work. That alone speaks volumes about who and what we are today. A world which denies the champion of transcending divisions a visa to cross the border.

I’m not sure what exactly it was that Edhi radiated in that room as we all sat and listened to him spellbound (until he woke me up with “Ask me more questions, are you tired already?”). It was something like a sense of boundless possibility. If a man of almost ninety who started with nothing can start and run the world’s largest volunteer ambulance organization, rescue 36,000 abandoned babies, feed the hungry every day, give every unclaimed body a decent burial, convince the most bloodthirsty amongst us to choose love over arms and build shelters where injured animals and birds are cared for, he can probably do anything. His humanity doesn’t know any bounds and in the face of all he has done, the photograph of a rather pompous ex-prime minister handing Edhi a little medal made me want to laugh. It was so grotesquely inadequate.

While even the most well-meaning of us execute our vision for humanity cynically-by crying ourselves hoarse about misgovernance, angrily criticizing the idiots who don’t do a better job and howling with fury at the corruption and crime we face daily, there are others in Pakistan who achieve greatness with complete trust that people will choose to do the right thing.

Edhi recounted a time when he was accosted by bandits on his way to Quetta. They recognized him for who he was, safely escorted him to his destination and on his arrival, presented him with two crore rupees. Other hardened criminals have been known to put down their guns in the middle of street battles when the Edhi ambulance arrived on the scene. Beggars who spend their days collecting ten rupees at a time have dropped five hundred rupee notes into Edhi collection boxes. What is it about his personality that makes us want to keep on giving? “You call these people bandits, dacoits, thieves. But think about the society that has produced a system where some remain wealthy forever while others have to shoot for bread and then tell me who is wrong. If you’re letting this happen, tell me who the thief is.”

I suppose that’s the answer to my question. Here is a man who will give us everything-who has already given us everything-simply because we are all human, whether we are criminals of one kind or another. It would be a challenge to find a single person in Pakistan who hasn’t been connected with the Edhi Foundation in some way. Everybody knows someone who has donated their money, called an ambulance, adopted a baby or had their Eid meat distributed by Edhi. There is a reason his number is pre-saved in the most basic models of cell phones under “Emergency contacts.” The truth is that the only emergency threatening to destroy us is that we can’t distinguish this common thread of humanity-and need-that runs in all of us. We all give to and take from the Edhi Foundation. We all need his services and yet our principal activity is pointing fingers at who landed us in this mess. Divisions, divisions, divisions.

14 comments:

Nafeesa said...

beautifully written mashallah =)..and true to its core!

Anonymous said...

The writer is a force to be reckoned with as well. The passion this article has been written with can be well perceived by the reader and goes to show that this one will do great things as well.
Coming to the subject of the article.
a)I am envious that you managed to meet a man of such caliber and passion who has done so much, not only for Pakistan, but for the world.
b)I believe he exuded a mixture of a bit of wisdom, lack of arrogance with a twist of spirituality all on a bed of humanity that made you all spellbound. In the presence of someone like Edhi, you can only sit and wonder about the course of his life.
c)I believe it wasn't only India who gave him problems. He was also held back at the JFK airport for some reason AND wasn't allowed to enter Gaza by the Egyptians. But you probably emphasized on the India bit since it was his birthplace.
All in all, wonderful article. :)

s.e. said...

Thank you Annonymous, whoever you are! I appreciate the comment :)
To clarify why I mentioned India, it's because that's the only incident he chose to focus on and talk about. He told us that he had problems entering Gaza because the Pakistani government didn't want him going to Israel. Still, it was the part about India at which he looked the most heartbroken, because he still thinks of it as his own country.

safinah said...

Great article sarah! Reading this stuff not only encourages people like us who live in their own bubble to get up and do something about so many wrongs around us, but also makes us believe in the reality of it all. When he can do it, so can we. And we should.

Ayesha Ali said...

wah Sarah , so inspiring , so inspiring

Ahad khan said...

amazing read. that gave me goosebumps!

Anonymous said...

Sarah i feel ashamed that our govt denied visa to a noble soul for a noble cause.your presentation is marvelous.May ALLAH bless you.kamaljit singh from ropar india

Shahid Mirza said...

Beautifully written, honest & simple, the most valuable and difficult element to achieve in writing, thank you for reintroducing the man and discovering the source of his newness and inspiration, his unwavering faith in humanity and the sense of duty, it is individuals like Edhi who promise a better future for the human kind, congratulations.

rabia said...

Thanks for noticing the details that matter, the arrival, the lack of queries about time schedules... The clockwork protocols and systems are not what always works in social enterprise but the meaningfulness and spirit of compassion that releases boundless energy and blossoms long.

Taimur Malik said...

Excellent article! May He live a hundred years and more!

There are so many human stories around you in our land of the pure - reaching 100 won't take long - but I doubt if we have another Edhi!

Keep writing (and publishing).

s.e. said...

Thank you everyone, especially Kamaljit Singh, I think it's really cool that you even read my blog. I don't think people on either side of the border need to bother being ashamed of their government, all govts are kind of evil :)

Anonymous said...

sarah even then as qateel sheafi rightly wrote ke daga kare woh kisi se to sharan aye mujhe kamalji

Anonymous said...

sharam

Ishrat said...

Thank you for sharing your experience , Sarah Jee. Delighted in every detail , agree with every sentiment . Long life and more power to our hero .